I'm going to agree with Lillith on this one; I am a possessive one, too. I have always said that "I don't share my toys." But with the cyber stuff, that is so different. It's fun, but on so many levels not real. And that's the fun of it. Even with the boundaries set from the beginning (cyber or not), I have found that one person always seems to get a little more serious than the other, and it can get weird.