Hell no, this is such a great idea.

If ever you wanted to break up a family, earn the condemnation of your community, spend the rest of your life disowned by everyone who loves you and not get to keep the object of your desire because all the above has poisoned the relationship beyond bearing, go right ahead.

You are the captain of your life-ship and if headlong rushes at reefs and minefields is your avowed desire, who are we to stand in your way?

We will not, repeat not, mention all the collateral damage this would entail.

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