Hiya Missy...so nice to see you again!

A few questions first, ok? To refresh our memory.

How long is "many years" in your relationship?
How old is your man and what is your age difference?
Has there ever been a "dysfunction" before or during sex...ie:loss of errection...etc?
Is your man on ANY prescription meds? Any OTC meds?


It's said that women "peak" in their 30's and 40's...and men "peak" in their late teens and 20's. Life never has been fair and equal but <---that sucks if it's true, huh? Talk about two ships passing in the night! Geezzzzzzz!

Anyway, I always go by the rule..."For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction"...meaning, there is a cause for your man's "effect". You both just have to find the cause of the effect.

Male menopause is subjective and can sometimes be used as an excuse for another, possibly more "embarrassing", problem/condition. For some reason (men from mars, women from venus) men can brag themselves up when the libido is in full functional swing...but go into a shell when the swing stops swinging. You'd think that's when they'd shout from the rooftops..."I NEED HELP"!!!!!

I mean, it's not as if it's their fault persay. Unless it's just disinterest...in which case it stands to be determined...and we should wait to jump to that conclusion (taking his reasoning at face value for now) till you can eliminate any and all other possibilities.

Let's try to get to the bottom of this...k?

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