Yes, sometimes it's male "menopause" == men's hormone levels do adjust as they get older. Some men feign disinterest so they don't have to admit they're incapable.

Also, you might want to explore whether there are larger emotional issues the two of you need to sort out. For instance, I've learned (after many years of quasi-celibacy) thta my husband needs more romance and TLC than I do. I am *always* ready for sex -- he needs to be romanced to get in the mood. It took me a long time to learn thhis (he doesn't verbalize these issues well), but now I can compensate. We're both happier.

Also -- are there any stress issues at work or home? Stress does funny things to some people, such as robbing the libido.

Either way, I hope you find a solution. Good luck.

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