I've had SEVERAL men I've met online either by personals or in chat...I'll tell ya a little about each of them:

The first man I met by checking my sister's personal ad for her one night after she had met the man of her dreams and I was replying back to all of her noters that she was now unavailable. One of the men struck me as special. He had written this wonderful erotic story and I asked if maybe he would like to write with me sometimes. We began to chat, and then talk on the phone, and then we finally met. He was wonderful. Romantic, funny, spontaneous, and married. We had an affair for about 2 years before I finally couldn't take it anymore and offered him an ultimatum...he picked his wife....go figure.

The second I met in a chat room. He was in the state on business. I met him at his hotel and he gave me the most amazing hardcore, kinky, wild sex I've ever had. And he was absolutely the best looking man I'd ever fucked. He was amazing. We only saw each other that one time. We still chat online now and then. He still wants me!

The third was the BIGGEST mistake of my LIFE! He was romantic, a sensitive lover, and a gold digger...on top of being on house arrest...He lived about 100 miles south of me and I would go to visit him 3 times a week at least. Paying my own gas, and when I'd get there, he'd ask me to buy him lunch/dinner and he would only call me collect....that didn't last long at all. I abhore this man!

The last was the charm. Funny, romantic, we had everything in common, he WASN'T married, and he lived in the next county. I married him 4 months after we met and we've been together ever since.