I didn't want to know before my kids were born, i wanted to hear the announcement of "You have a son/daughter" Also seeing if my woman's intuition was right on what i was having. I was right with both I had baby boy dreams with my son, and a dream that solidified my girl's name with my daughter.

the draw back of not knowing is, well not knowing. My kids were mostly dressed in green, yellow and purple for the first month or so. I just kept thinking that they really didn't care because they were more worried about the next nap, diaper change, and getting a breast in their mouths.

When Mayhem and i get preggers, i want to wait again, but if he really wants to know before, i am not fussed.

Congratulations!