I found out both times. The first because we were poor, Mr. Lil was in the millitary and we needed to buy the stuff the baby would need. The second because we were poor, only had boy stuff and needed to know what else we needed. Plus the ultrsounds for baby 2 helped baby 1 feel connected to the process of gaining a sibling and he was adamant he did not want a girl.

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