like the above....I have found taking a breath works, i.e. the stop and start method.

Its ok to slow down for a second and regain a second wind so to speak. The pinch the tip method can be a decent training tool.

Having it be the first time for a guy in while can be a huge part of it as he may be out of practice in being able to control himself and that first time may be too much stimulation. However, as time and practice goes by, he can get more control over himself and the girl will be able to see the signs.

Most importantly, just communicate. I mean there are things u can do to slow down the orgasms without making it seem mechanical and interrupting the natural flow of things. Different things stimulate without overstimulating, so just talk about it outside of sex and during.

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