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I tried......... I really did try to let this thread DIE!!! I walked away from it 15 minutes ago and my mind is reeling..........

But don't insult my intelligence..... First, I am NOT grouping all men or all women together in this observation. Please be clear on that point.

Lou, I love you but please, "they are displaying are parts of their body designed to sustain infants, not titillate men, " .... Women WANT to be attractive to men. Why is a teenager proud of her developing chest? To sustain a kid? Why does a women spend so much time and $$$ on bras? Because they each have better access for a baby's lips? Why does Victora's Secret have such a variety of bra shapes, designs, materials and colors? Do infants really notice? And what's the big deal on breast size? Does an infant worry about being smothered or that maybe it's meal may be small compared to other infants meals? I love breasts... any size or shape....... and I do notice them! Look at the the red carpet walks on celebrity awards night.... V necks plunging to belly buttons and half a breast visible on the sides of the gowns are designed to attract the eye......... anybody's eye! Not to make whipping it out for their infants more manageable.

In photography, we use lines to lead the eye where we want it to look. Composition 101........ If a woman didn't want to feel feminen and attract the eye, she would have stopped wearing V-necks long ago. A little cleavage is attractive. It's natural that we ALL want to look.... not ogle.... just notice that she does have an attractive shape.

I just don't get it when a woman gets bent out of shape if someone looks at her breasts...... I interpret it as being insecure in herself and is just looking to put somebody down just to make herself feel better...... I'm sorry folks.... I really should have let this one go........ but for the nice guys out there, we know the difference between breast feeding and titillation!

Off soapbox and back to work!!