Irish... I join all of those above (as well as those yet to post) in extending to you my condolences. I only wish that I could offer you and your daughter a tight hug. It isn't right, that many of us out live our children, it goes against the laws of nature and from experience I know that it is something that one never gets over.

In many ways.. it is harder for those closest to the parent. Your daughter is going to have alot of weight placed upon her shoulders and no doubt as her parent you are gonna want to comfort her and help her the best that you can. Just know that we are here for you... a shoulder.. whenever you need one...