Mrs. WI prefers to have me play with her pussy than to do it while I watch. She enjoys sex as a "participant" more than as a "performer". She knows I like watching her rub her clit and give herself pleasure and when we're really deep in some sexy and extended lovemaking, she'll play with herself while I'm giving her oral or during intercourse. I love thrusting into her and unexpectedly feeling her fingertips when my cock pushes between her lips.

Does your wife enjoy when you play with her clit during intercourse? Perhaps she could lend a hand when you're in one of those positions where it's akward to touch her? If not, well, she's not comfortable. Nothing to do but let her know that it doesn't change your feelings for her.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.