I'm with Irish on this one, actually. I don't like name calling at all - and although i will hold my hands up and admit that i am the world's worst when it comes to giving people 'pet names' i think it's really important that you only call people names they are happy with, in or out of the bedroom.

Actually (confession time now) the 'slut' incident i referred to earlier also got us into the whole name calling debate and i told him that as much as i don't get off on being called a 'slut', there are two things that turn me off even more. I hate to be called by my name or my nickname during sex and i can't stand to be told 'i love you'!!!!!!! This probably means i should be going for counselling, but nothing will turn me off faster!!!

In fact, when i told one lover that he said to me, 'Wow, you're not like a girl!' which i actually took as a compliment - well no-one said i was normal!!!!!!!!!

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