Well I would just like to say a BIG THANK YOU from all that replied for opening my eyes to what I guess I couldn't really see. Yes I did think that someone who really loves you would do anything for you. That was my problem because I would do anything that she wanted me to do regardless how I felt about it. My motto was I'll try anything at least once. I can't tell you all how much I really appreciate all of your thoughts. Some of the things you have said, I never really thought about. Well except for the Browns fan coment. lol. Anyway, you have all helped me open my eyes and my wife is gonna be alot happier now because of this. This forum is really great because of caring people like you. Thanks.