As a dad that was told we're pregnant we're getting married Iwill give you the same advice I gave to them.

Marry my daughter for love not because you feel obligated, love and care for her and my grandchild with all your heart and you will rebuild the trust that was broken it may take a little time but it will happen.Show me that you are really tryin to make a home and a life for my daughter and grandchild ,then I will help you.

ASk to marry her first before you announce the little one its not such a shock to a dads heart. Be prepaired to receive a cold shoulder from both parents for a while, it is human nature when a trust has been broken .

now when can I play with the kid? yes I have 2 son-in-laws that I love and treat as my own sons it just took a little while

Good luck and hope it works for you also

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