Well Wild Honey let me be the first to say welcome to the forums! The folks here are among the greatest you'll find anywhere. No doubt with a little time and effort you could muster more volunteers than you'd ever need for such a fantasy.
As for my comment about DP, ummm it sounds like fun if I had a partner who wanted it and a third I felt comfortable trusting. It'd all depend on her... communicating things like this aren't the usual "over the dinner table" conversations. LOL

__________________
As to marriage or celibacy, let a man take which course he will. He will be sure to repent - Socrates

Love is not looking in each other's eyes, but looking together in the same direction - Antoine De Saint-Exupery