I've seen a couple of erotic massage books but never bought one. Mrs. WI hates being oiled up so the context of our "backrubs" have always been dry and muscular rubs as opposed to the soft, slippery & erotic ones.

I found a write-up at clitical.com that sounds very nice though.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.