Originally Posted by osuche

You need to respect and love yourself before you'll end up in a healthy relationship.

Good sex is about having fun. Even when the sex isn't great, if you're having fun it won't matter.

Take the time to enjoy your partner -- use all your senses. Taste them, touch them, smell them, and gaze longingly. Say something appreciative. Listen for a response.

Don't forget to laugh. Some of my best partners haven't been the greatest lovers, but they were the nicest people.