Axe...

You have expressed what every sexually active person fears.. safe sex or not.. the risk is always there (albit a much smaller risk if safe sex is utilized). My thoughts are with you.. as are my prayers.. that this will be nothing more than a scare..

I have been told that one can be tested 6 months from first being exposed... which would mean if the first sexual experience between you and Gary occured more than 6 months ago.. getting tested now.. and every month for the next year will be an option to satisfy your fears..

HUGS to you... and Gary too