Mine have been whirling in my head... and I'm okay with putting them in writing....

1. A new lifestyle of eating, not a diet, but a life long commitment to eating appropriately and hopefully a significant weight loss will come with this.... I took the plunge and signed up for Weight Watchers online today... no excuses now.

2. Getting over whatever is plaguing my self-confidence. I've come to terms with therapy as an option for resolving this... and have started talking more with those close to me to try to figure it out.

3. Discovering my sensual, flirtatious, fun loving self. I think this will feel more natural after #2 is dealt with - but I'm prepared to make a conscious effort toward it.

In a nutshell I found myself very unhappy in the past couple of months and took a hard look at what the sources of my unhappiness are. I've read up and think I know how to tackle most of it... and where I can't handle it alone, I'm ready to reach out... These are leaps and bounds strides for me.