Interesting....not having a go at ya beliefs hun.....but

Being married does not stop people leaving when they want to....getting divorced is easy now days (many many do it)...and in my case i am very very committed to Bilbo....he is my soulmate...while i dont actually have the piece of paper...most class us as married and are suprised that we are not *LOL*

If we separate...it would be no different to a married couple...it would be costly and more than likely dragged out....Everything we own was bought while we were together and as such would need to be either sold or divied up...We also have kids which makes it even more messy

So please before ya say that defacto people aren't committed just pause for a sec

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