I like the idea of "test driving" before you commit. if i wouldn't have done that with my ex, with as much as we tried and failed, we would have been married twice and divorced twice.

If i had the choice, Mayhem would be living with me now while we make our wedding plans, or I be living with him. Unfortunately, half a continent and an ocean separates us, so living together isn't an option.

I say, do what your's and your partner's hearts feel is right for you