Hi, Puck. Welcome to Pixies. For a lot of background information on a lot of us here at Pixies, you could check the Personal threads. A lot of us submitted our "Howdies" there.

Is your wife a member of Pixies? You said she suggested you join, but didn't indicate if she was a member already.

Also, not sure what you want to know on the "actual act." I enjoy oral and intercourse with my wife. Not into anal. Needless-to-say, sex is great. The intimacy; the loving; the caring ... all wonderful.