I like to receive oral without teeth. But the problem I have is guilt. Receiving it gives me so much pleasure that I feel I am abusing her, that I am doing the taking and not the giving. I have seldom cum in her mouth, or over her face or in her hair simply because of the guilt. I know I am not abusing because I would never make her do something she doesn't want to do, it just feels that way. I love to give her pleasure because I care.

One of the other things that I was aware of that contributed to the guilt was hygiene. Being uncut, and despite showering, I was never sure that I had washed away all urinary traces. I always wanted to be perfectly clean.And with that in mind can I ask a question of the women, this this is a forthright forum. How do you handle urine traces during sex, or what is going through your mind when you play with the ass hole or lick it.

I like giving oral to my women, but I find I keep having to come up for air - often. I also have a very short tongue and and after not long it fatigues. My ex didn't like receiving oral to much because she felt she was overweight. I didn't have a problem with her weight, though from time to time (and I didn't know how to overcome this tactfully so I just lived with it) tuna fish was on the menu.

One of my fantasies, and I don't think she would have minded if I had done it, but I didn't have the guts. Was to simply take her unawares while she was sitting upright on the sofa, jump onto it legs astride of her and fu** the living daylights out of her throat for all I was worth.