[QUOTE=Loulabelle]I'm not quite sure why you're arguing against erotic fiction and flirtation. Whether you are into it or not is irrelevant. The question you asked was about women's preferences not your own. Telling us that you don't like flirting unless it goes somewhere is not going to make us stop wanting to flirt and start prefering pictures of penises.

I think you may have misunderstood what agaethwe meant regarding erotica and flirtation. I don't think he was arguing against them per se, just pointing out his own view/preferences. And I can see how real pictures and real stories would be more exciting than generic porn - and it is just a preference, not a judgement on anyone.