i had to wait 'til i was sure an intense o wouldn't hurt my incision. it took for.e.ver. no problem with the will, just too scared of pain
. we did get me all propped up with pillows now and then so i could give him a bj. or so i could watch him.
made me feel like i wasn't missing all the fun.
it does vary for the person but i am another one who experienced horny...beyond horny... pregnancies. my mind was at it's absolute dirtiest. gutter.
and once the pain from the surgery was bearable, about a week, i was soooo very ready, but like i said, too scared. i wasn't tired either. for both kids, but especially the first, i was on an adrenaline high that lasted about 4 months.