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How you doing hun?

OK...I agree...some pretty harsh words up there ^^^...but you asked...and we care when someone is seeking advice...and if you don't want to hear diverse opinions, just don't put it out there! There are plenty of things we can all talk about without getting too personal.

But since you asked looloo...could you please get back to us ASAP and let us know how you are and what you think of all the offerings here?

Believe it or not...when we answer something in this "Advice Forum"...we do it with the best of intentions and try to give the member as good advice as we would someone in our RL! It takes some thinking and I even try to put myself in the shoes of the person asking...and I NEVER try to steer them wrong. If I can't answer a query I just let it be and someone who knows better will chime in. If I've had similar experiences I try to divert the asker from the pain that might come if they continue the path they are going. That's what I tried to do here...and I'm hoping you aren't hurt by my advice! I hope you are considering it to be what it is...a concerned opinion!

You OK?

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