Lixy's absolutely right.

Sounds like, whether this man is being honest with you or not, your relationship is not stable enough to invite another person to join, let alone someone as vulnerable and needy as a child.

Don't think that having a baby will make this relationship stronger. It won't. It never does. Babies put immense strain on even the strongest couples, so a relationship where there are already doubts about fidelity, committment, mutual goals (like having a child, for example) etc is going to be even more pressured.

If you are pregnant, I'm afraid that your first responsibility is no longer to your man, or even to yourself, but to your child, and there's plenty more damage done to a child from them having 'the wrong' kind of father in their lives than having no father in their lives.

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