Um...just reread the previous post that Lil put the link up for and I stand by my feelings.

If you have so many questions about this guy...if you have so many negatives about the relationship...if the guy keeps putting up obstacles for you to navigate around...if, if, if...

looloo...Why would you put yourself in a position where you might get pregnant by a man you are not sure of? What happened to birth control? And beings that it isn't the first time that this might have happened with the same guy...why don't you respect yourself enough to take charge of your own body and therefore your future?

You don't have to answer these questions out loud...but do answer them for yourself!

My advice? If you are pregnant and you plan to carry to term...Yes, the father has a right to know. That it'll do you any good to make him aware...*shrugs* I doubt it if it's the same guy from the other thread.

I don't believe that he doesn't talk to his ex's anymore (your follow post up in the other thread). I believe that that's what he's told you and I can't believe that you believe it!

Whatever the outcome hon...I wish you the best! And if you aren't pregnant? WHEW! Take that as a cue to adjust your life so that these "scares" don't happen again!

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