Luv2BeLicked is entirely right looloo.....you've confronted him, his explanations have been found wanting, so don't stick around for further heart ache.

I know it's hard to face being alone, but if you stay in a toxic relationship you're
a) sending out the message that his poor treatment of you is ok
b) not allowing yourself a chance at a more fulfilling life
c) eroding your own self esteem and dignity by staying with a man who you know to be lying to you

You are an honest, articulate, intelligent, kind woman. You deserve at least as much in from your partner in return.

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