WildIrish touched on something important I feel:

If he is the kind of man who leads his ex on to 'see what he can get out of it' he sounds like a really nasty piece of work to me.

For a start, what was he hoping to get out of it? Sex? Money? Eeeeek!

Listen to those alarm bells honey and run for the hills!

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