I could not agree more with Galatea. She nailed it perfectly. This subject has come up in my relationship too. It is all in how you approach your wife. I am sure you wouldn't do this but because the idea of this is new to the both of you the last thing you want to do is make your wife feel analiated like you are into this other woman etc. I can tell you that when I am asked how I feel about allowing another woman to be involved it not only excites me but it scares me. It's all about the unkown and I don't think anyone who is new to this really knows what or how you will feel about it until all is said and done. I would seriously suggest you take your time, talk fully and open with your wife about it even if you guys talk about it until you are blue in the face, your relationship deserves it because I can almost guarantee that unless you are both on the same page 100% it can really do some serious damage to a relationship. I would imagine you have to have a very solid relationship going into any situation like that. When you mentioned that this is a woman YOU work with how would your wife be afterwards knowing you are seeing this woman at work on a daily basis? Would she feel threatened would she feel jealous? There are so many things that would need to be worked out beforehand. Me personally I would only do that with someone I know we wouldn't have to see again if we didn't want to. Like go to the Bunny Ranch in Vegas...lol choose a woman, one who doesn't have anything invested in the relationship this way if you are both uncomfortable with each other afterwards or there are some hurt feelings the other woman isn't anywhere around. Let me know how things work out for you I am curious to know because I have been pondering this same issue myself. Only I know enough that at this time and how my relationship is right now it just can't happen at this time. :jump:

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