I agree, "listening" to you girl's body is essential. And ladies, please help me out here, but I believe I have a trick that seems to help with the G-spot. I've found with several woman, that while pleasuring them with my toungue, and fingering them, with the "come hither" motion, that a bit of pressure just a bit above the pelvic bone with your free hand, seems to drive them crazy. Honestly, I have no idea where I picked this up, but it seems to work. I've been told that by doing so, presses the g-spot down while, the "come-hother" motion presses up, further stimulating the g-spot. Again, I am by no means the authority, so I'll defer to the ladies, but is this a consistancy, or an anomoly? Honestly, I want to know for my own technique.