Ok i'll admit i'm a guy, I like getting my kinks out of my shoulder blade worked out and pressed and kneaded very hard...so I have a pretty high tolerance here for pain as I believe in the pressure poitns and things like that...

but when it comes to my g/f she can't really take the elbows or pressure points that I like, so I'm at a bit of a lost of how to give her a decent massage without her saying, "that's too hard, etc." Now she is gone for the next week so I can't really ask her this so where do you ladies like to get massaged the most and how?

thanks for the info.