Sweety? I love that you are a pleaser...I really do. But, I think you think too much!

Some of the best lovemaking to ever happen to me was unabashed and raw!

I've had a guy who was in no way experienced...send me over the moon! I asked how he learned so much with so little experience...he said he "listened" to my body language and reaction to his touch and expanded on whatever he was doing at different times during our time together.

If you get anything from this thread in the way of "calculated fingering"...I hope that it's that whatever is happening in the moment might be the perfect thing at the time!

I trust that you are a great lover (just from reading your posts)...so don't ruin that sincerity by becoming a "by the book" robot! Understand?

*hugs*

Be yourself and LISTEN!

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~