The grass always seems greeneer somewhere else...so make sure both you and she can handle the mowing!

Virtual reality and actual reality can coexist or take over. You have to decide. You say you want to join a site. Is it to talk about the possibility...or to meet other like couples and eventually join them? How far are you willing to go? Thinking you can share and actually sharing are far and wide two total different emotional subjects. It's the difference between fantasy and reality...and reality can come back and bite you in the ass if it doesn't live up to your fantasy!

That aside...it is sooooooooooooo very erotic in the right mental state (I say this cause there are times of the month for me when I don't want to be involved) to see your lover with another as you are doing or being done by his/her mate. To watch them as another is pumping you is a phenomenon I can't explain it in type. It has to be experienced. But in the right state of mind?...OMG!

There's a lot of tension at first. Is she/he enjoying this more with him/her than she/he does with me? But when you realize the "no holds barred" for either person, and then trust that it's an experience that you can archive and still go home with your respective loved one...the pleasure outweighs the tension and you'll relax and enjoy!

So since the inception of this thread...how's it going?

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Minds are like parachutes. They only work when they are open.

~Thomas Dewar~