my friends say the same things...
it's very frustrating to me, because I too am bi and know there is no difference. Especially before I came out I loved watching guys kiss... i still do, but now I love watching girls kiss too!

Perhaps because so much "straight" porn has lesbian activity as opposed to gay activity, so society sees lesbian sex as a clearly defined sexual act. When two men kiss it is not publicized in porn unless it's "gay" porn. Therefore the straight American population sees two men kissing as something to "tolerate" as a "lifestyle choice" whereas two women kissing is considered "sexy".

Just my two cents.... I don't agree with the thought process at all though, and I believe people need to free their minds and question societies standards and expectations.

talk soon
~Alpha Kitten <prrr>