Remember who you are coming home to at night. Discuss with your spouse/s.o. what you want to do, what you don't want to do, what you want them to do and what you don't want them to do. And let them do the same. Also, discuss your expectations FAR ahead of the bedroom with those you may be inviting in. Communication isn't just important, it is a NECCESSITY!

And don't jump into something with the first couple that comes along just to say you've done something. Remember that anything you are doing with your swinging partners, you are sharing with your s.o. So its a matter of not only protecting yourself from diseases and unwanted pregnancy like it was when you were single. You have to worry about someone else too and if you love them this means you'll worry about them more than yourself as well.

Be safe. Be careful. Be sensitive. Be a good listener. Be a good communicator. THEN be a good lover.

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