LOL ... interesting points, so long as the clothes he's wearing aren't an AWFUL mix (plaid flannel shirt and striped jogging shorts - LOL) and they don't reek .. I'm not likely to take offense ... as long as the clothes are also reasonably appropriate for the occassion.

I don't think I'd dare tell someone else what they should be eating ... I'm too bad about that topic myself to feel like I'd have a right to control someone else's dietary habits!

By nature I've always been very independent, so whatever friends he has ... I'm fine with ... that doesn't mean that I'd like them as my friends all of the time though!

I'd like to have some things I can do with my man that we both enjoy ... but again, I'm fine with him having hobbies he's into that I have no interest in ... and vice versa.

Bad habits ... well there are some that I don't want my man involved with ... don't like smoking or drinking ... at least not around me ... The guy I currently date didn't admit that he was a smoker to me until he had stopped for 60+ days ... whenever we'd see each other before that .... he made major efforts to change into clean clothes, not smoke for a time before seeing me and cleaning his mouth/breath THOROUGHLY ... I still tasted it in his kisses now and then ... kind of like an aftertaste, but nothing major, so I didn't say anything to him about it ... when he confessed, I thought it was sweet that he went to such effort because he just knew that I'm not the type to like a smoker ... (we had never discussed it)

Strip clubs ... hmmmmm .... if he wants to go ... I don't want to hear about it ... and don't think I'd want to see him immediately after any trip he made to one. I guess I'm for a "don't ask - don't tell" policy on that one. I sure as heck am not interested in going to one with him ... can't imagine just how embarrassed and mortified I'd be in that situation!!! Not that I wouldn't like to try stripping for my man in the privacy of my place .... (someday when I feel a bit more positive about showing off my body that is)