There's a not well known movie called "Zandalee" starting Nicholas Cage as the wild guy who seduces his brother's wife. It's set in steamy New Orleans, and in one particular scene he dips his finger in honey then sprinkles cocaine onto it...and stimulates her puswah. OMG

Then there's a foreign independent film called "Swimming Pool" that has a scene at the end where the writer entices the gardner to her room where he finds her nude. The camera focuses on her feet & lower legs, where he starts running his hand up and out of the picture. When he reaches her most intimate of areas, we know it...because her toes clench tight. Wow, that was a powerful & sexy scene that didn't even need graphic displays.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.