LAW- some of what Gekko said had a very good point... I do agree it would be best for her to wait on her husband to come home because of the innocent child involved. However, I am not so sure I could be as strong as both of you. I can't imagine watching the things on CNN and knowing my husband, the father of my children, and last but not least the love of my life was over there fighting for us and for his life. I just can't imagine. There is a guy I talk to that went over there and came home early cause he got shot up god I was happy to hear he was home, but soooo sad that he had gotten shot. He could have lost his life... anyway completely off track...

I don't know that I could be as strong, but god knows I would want to be, I would be in tears almost every night and I would kling so tight to my son, because he would remind me so much of his father. I suggest the friend spends more time with her children than with her friend. Altho god knows that I would want to see the friend and hang out. She needs to distance herself just for a little while to find out where her true feelings lie.

I am so sorry she finds herself in this position.

I wish the both of you well, and I pray to God that they both come home safely!

love ya LAW

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~Kaelynn~

Some days life can be shitty , some days life can be outstanding ;
Sometimes you find love , sometimes you find fun ;

Just remember through all these changes you are you, special and unique...

Just a reminder to those who are like me and need it...