As Lil said...experience isn't all it's cracked up to be if it's "bad" experience. There's nothing better than a blank canvas to make a work of art that is you...from the heart...and not what others have painted you to be!

Relax hun! We've all had to start somewhere.

Be attentive. Ask what she likes. Show/tell her what feels good for you. Always be honest and never stop communicating. If it hurts...say so. If you fear you are hurting her...ask. But don't fear the exploration. It's the most beautiful trip you'll ever take!

Time is on your side and you have many, many new and exciting sides to your sexuality to discover. Don't be afraid to show your true self. Keep her in focus, but don't lose yourself in the process. Tell her if you don't understand or know what she likes. Tell her if you've never tried something and you want to know how she'd like you to approach it.

I'm telling you hun...we women are some of this planet's greatest creatures and when we like a man (which I am assuming she likes you enough for you to feel that "it" is about to happen) we go all out to make an experience between us the best it can be!

Be yourself...never lie or boast...and ENJOY!

P.S. Welcum to Pixies Joe UK! Hope to see more posts from you around the forums...and keep us updated here if you can...k?

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