she's allowed to be attracted to or love someone besides her husband, but that doesn't mean she needs to act on it. but the dilema's solution seems clear to me....she doesn't want to be unfaithful so she shouldn't. if it would hurt her husband, and she does it anyway, then she doesn't love him as much as she thought. at the verry least, i think she should wait until her hubby gets home and talk to him about it.

who knows? it could just be a crush or fantasy that disappears after a while. imagine how she'd feel if she hurt her family just for a crush.

maybe you could help her make a pro/con list. getting it all out in black and white in front of her may help her see the situation better.

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