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I'm sure Fussy won't mind me sharing the fact that he NEVER cums during oral.

In fact, he's only cum during oral sex twice in his life, neither times was with me, but both were in slightly unusual places, where the excitement and risk of being caught made it a more thrilling experience (by the way, I only learned that on Thursday, so you can imagine, that I'll be putting this knowledge to good use!)

While I can sympathise that we women are insecure about our sexual technique and worry that we give a crap blow job if we don't get anything to swallow at the end, she really shouldn't put you through a guilt trip because you didn't cum. I'm sure you wouldn't make her feel guilty if she didn't cum during intercourse (which the majority of women, statistically, don't).

For my own part, Fussy knows I'd love to be able to make him cum, but we are also realistic that it might never happen...my mouth just gets too tired, and he gets so frustrated that he demands to fuck me, before long (*sigh* what a chore.....not!!!!)

On the plus side for me, while I always swallow when I have the opportunity, I'm not a huge fan of the taste, so with Fussy it means I get all the fun of sucking, and none of the bitter saltiness of having anything to swallow!

Try to turn it around into a positive with her, pointing out that you're lack of ability (at least at present) to cum in her mouth makes you a better, longer lasting lover.....we confessed to a friend of ours recently that Fussy doesn't cum from oral, and she turned green with envy and said 'OMG I'd have a field day with you!'

On a final note....you may be suffering from a little bit of guilt related anxiety about what you're doing....remember, that it's your life, your choice and the only person you need to be able to look in the eye and feel OK with, is yourself, in the mirror every day.