whoo! son you have got some balls. what are you doing coming in here on your first post and calling people out. That's asking for trouble.

1) Apparantly, you have some issues with mr. wanderingsoul. that's fine, no body says you have to like everybody. But I find it a little ironic that you're trashing him going on and on about how he doesn't know you all the while, YOU DON'T KNOW HIM EITHER. You have spent no more time with him than he has with you. Both of you are passing judgement and it makes you both look like Deal with that shit in PM's - that's why we have them.

2) Regarding your girl AV. Only one post on here has been attacking you, and we've discussed that in part 1. Everyone else has been trying to build up the girl that you say you are in love with. So don't come on here with an attitude when we are just trying to help. No one is cutting on you, no one is dogging you out, you don't need to get defensive. In fact, the other person you called out said in a previous post that you actually aren't too bad of a guy. We aren't interested in hurting you, we're interested in helping her. Or to paraphrase another Pixie - she is our priority, you are not. At least you weren't before you became a member.

3) and speaking of KAELYNN (and girlfriend, listen up, because I'm going to thump your nose a little here, too). You two apparantly don't get along. I've got some firthand experience with situations like this. The bottom line is that the two of you have got to be at least courteous to one another. No exceptions, no excuses. If you can't handle being courteous, then simply don't be around one another. But the fact is, the more you two bicker ans squabble, the more difficult you make life for AV. Do not name call, do not trash each other in public (what you do in private it your business) and do not bitch to her about how awful the other one is. That's why you have girlfriends and guyfriends. Bitch to them about it.

4) and 4, just to satisfy my own curiosity.
There is anothe member, qwerty, that has been very active in this thread. I suspect, MR. AV Man, that this is another alias for you, or it is someone you know well working for you. I could be wrong. But this motherfucker seems to have a very indepth knowledge of your situation and is all to eager to provide advice. And everytime, his advice is geared toward getting you and AV back together, or building you up. so I'm just curious - not passing judgement not pointing fingers. ARe you behind him?

Ok, so I've officially stuck my nose in where it doesn't belong, but i don't regret it. I think we are all working toward a common goal, and that is AV's ultimate happiness. However, SHE is the one who has to decide what makes her happy. The best thing you can do for right now is to back off and let her take the time that she needs to get herself together. That means no phone calls, emails, internet conversations and NO DEFENDING YOURSELF ON MESSAGE BOARDS YOU KNOW SHE READS! Let her contact you. I know it's hard, but it's for the best.

I hope I've managed to do this adult-like. If you're pissed, feel free to respond, preferably in PM's.

Sincerely,

LAW

P.S. one more thing. Please do not call my girl Kaelynn a slut in public again. I will not be as nice about it next time.