Well thank you all very much for your replies. There is alot of good info there. I know she will never change but that's ok. I was just looking for something different to arouse each of us. I guess I do it because I love to stroke myself for her and let her get close enough to lick my precum if that's what she would like to do at that moment. So I will continue to do anything she asks and I, in turn, will let her express herself her way. I think most women would love to watch a guy do it. So, do it. Thanks