I have scrolled past the above advice... with 100% certainty that each of them are worthy of your attention... and if you read them all... and closely you will discover that there is no wiser advice for me to offer.... they have covered it all...

I wish you well.... and urge you to remember that ALL of us are a product of our experiences... this experience has changed you... just as every experience you ever have will... allow yourself to grow with it...