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Originally Posted by qwerty

AV the man simply needs time to figure himself out. He feels lost, confused, and worst of all he feels he has hurt you.

Kaelynn, friend or not this is one time you are likely to cause more problems than you are to help. Your wanting to "protect" AV makes you beat down the man she loves.
In doing so you:
A) Drive a wedge between yourself and her. (Even if she doesn't tell you)
B) Make it impossible for them to ever get back together.
C) Make the guy hate you.

AV don't listen to them about not talking to the guy. There is a difference between talking and begging him to come back. As long as you don't pressure him to come back everything will be fine. Keeping communication open is key in being able to salvage what you had.

Think about the entire relationship and decide if the good outweighed the bad. If it did then why should you give up? I would rather go down fighting than tuck tail between my legs and run. (Just be careful not to come across overly obsessive)

Well Welcome to Pixies qwerty, glad you decided to have your first post help a pixie in need.

I just would like to say a few things to defend myself. AV and I have a very close relationship and I am not trying to hurt her. At the begining of the post I told her to remember that her and him had problems so that this guy doesn't become her sun and earth. It happened to me, I started thinking I couldn't live without this guy, it's like I blocked out all the bad. I wanted to remind AV that there were troubled times and that she can stand without him she did before he was around. I also told her at the end that if the above advice was not to her liking she still needed to step back and look at the overall picture to see how she really felt about the situation. I will be the first to admit, I am still trying to figure out all the reasons of why they broke up. At times they fit together well, maybe more times than not, what matters is that I love her and if she is hurting I will do whatever it takes to take the hurt away.

The only thing that really matters is that we will be friends no matter what, she knows that I may come off harsh but I mean well. I love her and always have. A boy can not seperate us forever, thankfully.

If he hates me... So be it... I don't want to see her hurt any further... He is not my priority, She is.

I would like to say that I am not normally this harsh but when it comes to my AV, I will be. I don't mean this to be an attack on you, since you are a new member, again I welcome you to the pixie family. I just wanted you to know that AV and I have a personal relationship, more than just meeting on this board.