07-30-2002, 03:04 AM
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Pixies Den Mother
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: No-Hockey Land, dammit!!
Posts: 11,897
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Originally posted by vampeyes
I would never dream of hiding my involvement in a site such as Pixies or my cybering for that matter from him.
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I really do envy those of you who are able to be so open with your S/O about Pixies and other sites like it. I believe a lot of my reluctance has to do with "age" and "upbringing". By that I mean I was raised 10-20 years earlier, or more than most of the other ladies here, and at that time (late 50s/early 60s) sex was not as openly discussed as it is today. Especially it was not talked about in front of or with "boys" if you were a "nice, Catholic girl". That doesn't mean that I have ever believed it was "bad" or "dirty", only that we were never taught or allowed to express or discuss sexual likes/dislikes or anything else regarding sex, in mixed company.
It was not discussed at home or school other than warnings to "keep your legs crossed" and you'd better not get "in trouble." |