I once made my wife a sandwich in exchange for hand release. I think it was the novelty of the idea that made it really fun. Honestly, I was shocked she agreed and even more shocked that she kept up her end of the agreement! lmao

To me, everything's about the attitude. Bartering for sex can be a fun way to make mundane chores more fun...or it can be demeaning & pitiful. Depends on your attitude. Not something I'd want to incorporate into our relationship on a regular basis though.

Btw...it was an awesome sandwich!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.