There's obviously no magic phrase that will make Mrs. WI change her answer from no to yes...but when it's late and we're both awake, I've asked "so...wanna get lucky?". When I'm really craving some luvin, I'll whisper to her while we're out "I know it's wrong, but I want to push you against that wall and fuck you hard right now....and lick you when we get home."

But I'm dying to see how "hola" works.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.